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[monksmom]

Read...heed....listen...learn:)

Make this opportunity work for YOU!

[monksmom]

Always a good read here for those who are just starting out in the world of freebies here on our great flr:)

Trading safe means you stay happy, content, and making money:) Doesn't that sound good to you?

[Boeingnick]

Very good post! Newbies start here! :)

[monksmom]

Awww....thanks, Nick:) It does work well on this forum and the bulk of it on any others, too:)

New folks need to be aware that it really IS all about them...GREAT opportunity yet it's one that you just can't start over on...no matter where ya go:)

[monksmom]

My apologies! It was just brought to my attention some of the links failed so just updated them:) lol...we sneak in updates to the forum and sometimes it ain't easy figuring out which got up and which didn't:) Whatever you do, however you do it...make sure it's all about YOU and by all means, trade safe! Good luck!

Originally Posted by monksmom

Since this one particular question has got to be the most asked as, well, look at this place!

Over 60,000 users, everyone waving their hand, trying to make you see them...lol...as natural as wondering...where do you start...well...

Where you start is by reading flr\'s rules.

Oh, I know...more reading...but these happen to be very important, both now and down the road. NOT knowing or understanding the rules is NOT an option. Just a lil head's up on that...

Failing to comply with the rules can lead to anything from having a one day ban all the way up to a permanent ban...and if you're serious about doing well here, I am pretty positive that's NOT what you want to happen!

FLR's rules...the simplified version:

The rules for new folks, ie, as a referral (NOT carrying a trade thread in signature block) -

1. Report anyone who contacts you in ANY way without your consent! That is spam. Period. Worried about what happens then? Read this...To Report...or Not to Report...and if you do, what to expect....

2. You may contact anyone who carries a trade thread in their signature block. How would/will you know it's there? Look for comments like "Click here for my trades" or "Look here to see what I offer"...something along those lines. Bottom line, if they seem to be acting like a trader and have a full signature block, then by golly...consider them a trader!

3. You may NOT contact anyone else FIRST, meaning those withOUT a trade thread. Now, does this mean there's no way to make friends here or communicate with other new folks? Absolutely NOT!

FLR has given us a great link, the "Want more friends" thread. Post in there, asking folks to add you to their friends' list and poof...you've got friends! Also, if someone has posted there, you may add them anytime you like!

This is meant to be initial contact...and, once that first contact is made, then jump on in! Communicate with them, send cute graphics, chat, or ask about their day...it's all good & an EXCELLENT way to start up an incredibly awesome support network here!

You canNOT suggest trades, though, unless you are new and they have a trade thread. Don't lose sight of this...you may NOT contact "friends" to suggest or send them promotional materials where you will benefit unless THEY request it from you.

I can't count the number of times I've felt truly blessed...just to know my friends were even there! It will become like a second family...you'll worry if their dog gets potty trained...or if their son or daughter is having a bad time or even a good one...in essence, an extended family where you can share good...and bad.

And yes, you may most definitely share/discuss experiences with those in your "friends" group - just no trade solicitation unless they have expressed an implicit interest. Keep anything trade related in pms if at all possible. Remember, EVERYONE can read what's in those public notes...good AND bad!
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4. KNOW you are under NO obligation to work with anyone, trade with anyone, do any trade that you are not comfortable with or have any questions on/of.

YOU are NOT to feel obligated, guilty or coerced in ANY way to do anything in which you are not comfortable! I know I'm repeating myself here, but for some reason, this one fact just doesn't seem to be getting through!

5. The Status Line is NOT for promotional material of ANY kind! This is where you put "putting the kids on the bus" or "enjoying the day" or even "cruising flr"...NOT "looking to green for you" or "newbie wanting work"...NOTHING that resembles or suggests trades...got it? Kewl!

Yes, it seems like it should be the same thing as the Location section yet as you prollly weren't around when it was implemented, admin gave us this tool 'cause we wanted someplace to say...we'll be back...in a fast, easy manner. Thus, status line...fyi..it will get edited by a mod and you just never know what they may say:)

6. You may post a hunnerd times if you like if you are seeking someone to work with, wish to say "Hi" or anything else - as long as they carry a trade thread!

Safe trading is happy trading...and happy is ALWAYS the preference when going after that free lunch!

And...if you have ANY concerns whatsoever, PLEASE contact one of our awesome moderators! Go to the main FLR page and scroll all the way to the bottom...you'll see a "Support" section, click there or click here - click in and look for someone who's user name says "Online Now"...and ask away.

If more than one is online, go ahead and send your questions or concerns to more than one person. These ladies do get busy and the best way to know you'll be handled efficiently is to make sure you're heard:)

No one online? It doesn't happen too often except in the early hours and if it does, STOP whatever it is you are doing or questioning until you can get ahold of someone who knows - like a moderator, Administrator or Gladiator. THEY have the magic answers to all:)

PLEASE be sure to read ALL of FLR\'s rules. This is not meant to be controversial, only a gauge for new folks to work with. Thanks!

6/15/09 update...updated links!

[monksmom]

Just a reminder for truly new folks here to flr, that are also new to freebie trading:) Better to start off right then try and struggle a few trades in playing catch up:)

[monksmom]

New to freebie trading?

Then this IS a must read and most definitely the FIRST thing you need to read:)

Safe trading is happy trading...no one wants to get taken advantage of, forced or made to feel guilty about anything and happy trading means just what it should...this really IS all about YOU so make it the best start by being the right start:)

[gdray]

Great information for new traders and also for the not too new traders.

[monksmom]

Thanks:) This really should be the first thing folks read when they hit the forum who are actually new to freebie trading in general:) The healthier the experience in the beginning, the longer and harder folks are going to work putting themselves into being the best traders possible...and that's something this forum truly has...some of the best!

[jt0921]

mom where were you when i started...this is such helpful linformation, anyone would be crazy to not stop here first